While Virgo tends to focus on the trees,
Sagittarius is interested in the forest. Very often Virgo points out
problems with specific details of any situation, while Sagittarius would
rather discuss the overall, general outlook rather than the practical
details. These different approaches can balance each other. They are
also likely to conflict with each other at times, especially when
Sagittarius feels that the details will take care of themselves and
Virgo should simply have more faith in the process. Virgo can be guilty
of spending so much time criticising the details that the overall goal
of an otherwise excellent plan is missed. Sagittarius, on the other
hand, may need Virgo's detailed analysis but not be willing to admit it.
Positively, you can work together with
Sagittarius providing a great deal of vision and enterprise, and Virgo
providing a great deal of practical advice, expertise, ad skill.
However, it is inevitable that Sagittarius will feel annoyed with
Virgo's pettiness and criticism at times, and Virgo will feel frustrated
by Sagittarius's sloppiness of thought or behaviour. Much humour,
tolerance, and awareness of your legitimate differences will be needed
to work these problems through.
Virgo is practical, careful,
discriminating, and somewhat conservative, while Sagittarius is
idealistic, generous, looser, and more of a gambler. Where Virgo tends
to play it safe or to follow a logical, well-defined, and secure path,
Sagittarius is inclined to take risks and act on faith. Sagittarius is
an optimist, while Virgo, though not exactly a pessimist, is certainly a
realist.
Virgo is precise, fastidious, and loves
order, while Sagittarius can be careless and indifferent to the minute
details that mean so much to Virgo.
Virgo will stay on a budget, while
Sagittarius finds it irksome (if not impossible) to do so! Virgo is
punctual; Sagittarius, often, is not. Sagittarius tends to exaggerate
and promise more than is possible, while Virgo is sober, clear, and
impartial, and also more diligent about carrying out promises.
At first, Virgo may find Sagittarius's
optimism and playfulness refreshing and attractive, but over time the
two of you could have serious differences, especially if you try to
convert one another to your own way of doing things.
The two of you do not always see
eye-to-eye on issues, and it is very easy for Virgo to become critical
of Sagittarius. Compounding the problem is Sagittarius's tendency to be
very sensitive to criticism from Virgo and consequently react
defensively to this criticism. This need not be a serious problem
however; a little tolerance for each other's right to disagree and
respect for individual differences is all it takes to make personal
differences stimulating rather than annoying.
Irritations over relatively minor
incidents and situations, combined with a tendency to have differing
tastes, preferences, and interests may make an intimate, long-lasting
relationship difficult. You do care a great deal for each other, though,
and both of you feel exceedingly bad after a quarrel. If you can be
tolerant of each other's differing attitudes, interests, and lifestyles,
the negative tendencies of this astrological influence will be minimised.
Sagittarius is very much aware of Virgo's
beauty or attractiveness and finds Virgo very persuasive and appealing.
However, your personal styles, tastes, and preferred leisure activities
are often not in harmony, and you need to make adjustments and
allowances for one another's differing personal tastes and desires.
You love each other very deeply and the
attraction between you is very strong, but your relationship is also
prone to emotional ups and downs. It is not unusual for the quality of
feelings that you have for each other to be quite different and this can
lead to misunderstandings. For example, Virgo may be in a romantic mood
at a given time while Sagittarius is feeling friendly, but not romantic.
The roles sometimes reverse, and you find that your feelings frequently
just won't synchronise. You also easily hurt each other's feelings not
realising how much the other person loves and cherishes you.
Romantic feelings are strong and you are
very compatible sexually. It is unlikely that the feeling of being
"in love" will ever fade completely, and it is likely that you
will both see each other as someone very special and dear to you
throughout your lives. Your relationship is definitely warm and romantic
and very fulfilling for both of you.
You will be quite inventive and energetic
sexually. You may like to try out new techniques that seem quite unusual
or far-out.
As a couple the two of you will attract a
lot of unusual friends, eccentric or creative people who will make life
interesting and entertaining. You'll find that your interaction is
always dynamic and changing, so that both of you are taken by surprise
and cannot take anything for granted regarding each other. This keeps
your connection fresh and stimulating, although you may wish for a
little more peace and "sameness" at times.
Dancing, music, or rhythmic sports like
golf, tennis or swimming are things you will excel in as a couple.
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