Libra loves company and can talk
endlessly with friends, and loves to hear others' experiences and
thoughts on any subject. Libra is very accepting of different points of
view and is disinclined to judge or even clearly evaluate what others
say. Virgo, on the other hand, loves to analyse and criticise, and is
intolerant of illogical or erroneous thinking. Virgo is more demanding
of others and confronts others when necessary. Libra finds these
confrontations extremely uncomfortable and often embarrassing. Virgo is
much more exacting and demanding in all areas of life. At worst, Virgo
can view Libra as wishy-washy, and Libra can view Virgo as prim and
intolerant, but hopefully your appreciation of each other is much better
that this! At best, your different natures can complement each other
without annoying each other.
Both of you are perfectionists in your
own ways, though what "perfection" means to each of you
differs. Libra wants the perfect relationship, one that is beautiful and
harmonious and free from all tension, conflict, dissonance, and also one
in which both partners share equally in everything, are able to discuss
everything together, and always work out a fair, equitable solution to
any problem that arises. IT may be difficult for Libra to accept the
cruder or less-than-ideal aspects of a partner's character or
appearance. Virgo is a perfectionist in the sense of wanting perfect
order in the environment and paying meticulous attention to detail,
being fastidious and particular about hygiene, health and diet, or
correct behaviour and procedure.
Virgo is also self-critical and often
tries to live up to impossibly high standards for behaviour, appearance,
performance, or technical ability.
Both of you have rather refined
sensitivities. You also respond more reasonably and logically, rather
than impulsively or emotionally, to most situations.
One difference between you is that Libra
can see merit in just about anyone's viewpoint and often doesn't have
strong, extreme views, while Virgo does have very clear, definite ideas,
and the annoying habit of correcting other people when they are
"wrong".
Your conversations tend to be probing and
deep. You enjoy uncovering the underlying motivations and causes of a
situation. Frequently what starts out as a light, friendly conversation
ends up as an in-depth psychoanalysis of each other! Libra may dominate
your conversations and at times tries to force Virgo into agreeing or
believing whatever Libra wants!
The tendency to argumentativeness, verbal
abuse, and mutual misunderstanding is very strong so please heed the
following advice, especially if your relationship is a permanent one:
try to avoid abusive language towards each other, and do not try to
coerce the other person to accept your views. You enjoy challenging each
other's ideas, showing the weaknesses, inconsistencies, or
superficialities in each others reasoning. While the intention is good,
the net result can be hurt feelings and anger. Typically there is some
truth to each other's point of view, but a lack of real appreciation and
respect for each other's ideas triggers argumentativeness.
You enjoy sharing music, art, or poetry
with each other. Taking evening walks, listening to music together, and
watching movies together are likely to be some of your favourite shared
activities. You can tune into subtleties of feeling and aesthetics in a
manner that inspires and uplifts each other. Travel is something both of
you enjoy.
There is an especially sweet, tender,
nurturing love between you which fosters a successful and fulfilling
closeness. It is natural for you to take care of one another and devote
yourselves to each other. You feel protective, caring, concerned with
each other's well-being, and seem instinctively to know how to make each
other happy. The destiny of your love-bond is to make life sweeter, more
comforting, more beautiful for you both. The urge to be a family and
make a home together will predominate.
Your chances for a very loving
relationship are high, because this love you share will soften many of
the blows or difficulties life sends your way. Yours is destined to be a
lasting love for on another.
There is a strong romantic attraction
between you and you instinctively know how to please and make one
another happy sexually. Both tenderness and passion are present between
you, so this relationship can be immensely fulfilling to both of you!
The two of you will be involved in some
highly speculative ventures, many of which are simply overblown
fantasies with little chance of concrete realisation. Unlimited
imagination, hope, and idealism permeate your relationship, and this
makes you believe (or almost believe) that you can do anything together.
There is a naive foolishness and optimism in this, a trust in Luck or in
the abundance of the Universe, which in fact buoys you up in spite of
whatever setbacks occur.
Even if as single individuals you are
fairly practical and realistic, something about being with each other
amplifies your sense of grand possibilities, your most extravagant
dreams and wishes. "Somewhere Over the Rainbow" could be your
theme song. Be aware that as a couple you have an imagination that is
somewhat out of control, and the inability to stay within reasonable
limits will eventually catch up with you. Carelessness, negligence
towards basic, mundane responsibilities, and generosity overdone will be
your nemesis.