The two of you are both intellectual
creatures, more rational than emotional, and you have a good mental
rapport. You both love to talk and you appreciate one another's wit.
Virgo, however, has a more practical, down-to-earth turn of mind, while
Gemini just enjoys playing with ideas, without needing a purpose or
practical application for them. Gemini is also more of a risk-taker and
will gladly do something once "just for the experience" while
Virgo is more careful, cautious and discriminating. For the most part,
however, you understand each other well, and can be quite compatible.
Both of you are very active and inclined
to try to do too many things at once, scattering your forces and
depleting yourselves through overwork or compulsive busy-ness. Gemini is
mentally restless and needs the stimulation of new ideas, intellectual
challenges, and a variety of people to interact with. Gemini is
something of a social butterfly also. Virgo is more practical,
down-to-earth, and conscientious. Modest and self-critical, Virgo is a
hardworking perfectionist with a talent for working with details and
organizing practical affairs. Also, Virgo is fastidious and particular
about food and nutrition, health and hygiene, and having everything in
its proper place, which can be difficult for Gemini to live with at
times. Virgo is more disciplined than Gemini and more concerned with
self-improvement.
Gemini is witty, humorous, and plays more
easily than Virgo does. You both enjoy word games, or games that hone
and test your knowledge or intellectual skill.
Both of you are deeply drawn to
understand the mysterious workings of the universe, and you will probe
into territory that others may feel is better left forgotten or out of
sight. Virgo can become intensely preoccupied and obsessed with such
things, while for Gemini, it is more a matter of satisfying curiosity.
Both of you, too, tend to form very
strong opinions, but Virgo fixates on these ideas and can become
coercive and manipulative in order to get others to believe the same
way. Gemini could help Virgo be less fanatical, extreme, and one-sided
in Virgo's points of view.
Your relationship is exciting,
unpredictable, and stimulating. However, it tends to be explosive too,
and there is the strong possibility that you will come together suddenly
and unexpectedly, and will break up just as suddenly. If either of you
is looking for a very stable, quiet, traditional, uneventful marriage
with security, commitment, dependability, and predictability, then this
is not the relationship for you! Together you will explore new
possibilities and interests and break away from traditional, long-held
beliefs and assumptions. Your sexual life, like other aspects of your
lives, is exciting but not predictable and likely to vary from ecstatic
to unsatisfying. You must be willing to be flexible and adaptable in all
areas of life. Be wary, also, of letting your love for freedom and
independence become a euphemism for being neglectful and inconsiderate
of each other.
With sexual expression, you are both
direct and forceful and you both put a lot of energy into what you say
and do. You can both express your love with great conviction. Multiple
orgasms can be achieved, sex comes quite naturally to the both of you.
Experimentation in sex will certainly elevate any inhibition you may
initially have. The farther-out variations the better. Oils, videos, and
sex toys may appeal to you both. Intimate touching is important to both
of you.
Without a doubt, the two of you rouse
strong energies within one another, and you will have to learn how to
manage conflict, passion, and anger in a creative way. When you are
together, you both tend to become competitive, overly eager,
rambunctious, zealous. You are not destined to have a peaceful, placid
coexistence! However, you can initiate new projects and get lots of work
done together, if your drives are harnessed and channeled into creative
enterprises. Winning at work and competition, developing a warrior
spirit, encouraging one another to be bolder and more courageous - these
are the positives you will discover and create together if you can
diffuse the more aggressive, abrasive energies you bring out in each
other.
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