While Taurus often takes a practical,
down-to-earth, simple approach to life, Aquarius is more inclined to
take a modern, progressive or unconventional approach. This inclines the
two of you to often differ on political and social issues as well as
have different tastes in art, music, and literature. Aquarius is more
aware of modern trends, and stays more in tune with changing styles and
current events, while Taurus stubbornly holds on to the classics.
Taurus' interests are more focused, less wide-ranging, and change little
over time. This difference in your approach to life is not likely to
create serious problems, but does tend to be annoying at times. You are
both stubborn (Taurus is particularly stubborn!), and this can aggravate
the problem as you may be unwilling to fully accept and appreciate each
other, being unwilling to adapt to your differences.
Both of you are stubborn and fixed in
your ways and your spontaneous impulses and emotional requirements are
frequently at odds with one another. Taurus wants serenity, tranquility,
and stability in the personal and domestic sphere. Very much a creature
of habit, Taurus does not adjust quickly to changes in routine, home
life, or personal relationships. The old-fashioned, tried-and-true ways
often suite Taurus just fine.
Aquarius, on the other hand, craves
excitement, social life, and mental stimulation, and has a strong
impulse to experiment with new ways of doing things. Aquarius is
indifferent to custom and convention at best, downright rebellious
toward authority and tradition at worst. Many of your disagreements
revolve around the theme of maintaining the status quo (Taurus) versus
change (Aquarius).
Aquarius rocks the boat - and Taurus may
not like it a bit! Also, Taurus is somewhat possessive about loved ones,
and Aquarius has a powerful need to be a free, independent individual,
whether committed to a relationship or not.
Furthermore, Aquarius is very ideological
and often quite attached to opinions and beliefs that, in Taurus' eyes,
defy common sense or the natural wisdom of the body and instincts.
Taurus can help Aquarius become more attuned to nature, sensuality, or
the feminine side of life, instead of living only in Ideas.
Neither of you are particularly
conventional, nor are you great lovers of rules and formal traditions
for their own sake, but Aquarius is apt to have a much harder time
conforming, and may in fact openly scorn or rebel against such
limitations. There is apt to be a great deal of change, constant motion,
fluctuating circumstances, and disorganization in Aquarius' life,
whereas Taurus embraces necessary changes and flows with them but
doesn't seem to need to create upsetting and unstable situations all of
the time. Taurus can help Aquarius learn how to be true to oneself and
one's own beliefs and nature without needing to always rail against
"the establishment" or "the system".
Sexual attraction for each other is
intense! It is aroused suddenly and unexpectedly and then disappears
just as quickly, making this relationship unpredictable and probably
unstable. You are unusually candid with each other and provoke unusual
feelings and behaviour in each other. You enjoy partying and being
uninhibited with each other. This is an exciting, unusual and perhaps
unconventional relationship. One thing is guaranteed: never a dull
moment!
Both of you may enjoy props, sex toys,
videos, or bedroom aids. Experimentation will always interest you,
improve your sexuality and performance. You will never run out of new
ideas or ways of improving your sex life.
Aquarius is very much aware of Taurus'
beauty or attractiveness and finds Taurus very persuasive and appealing.
However, your personal styles, tastes, and preferred leisure activities
are often not in harmony, and you need to make adjustments and
allowances for one another's different personal tastes and desires.
Mysteries, secrets, investigating the
underside of any issue - these will be a significant part of your
relationship. Whether or not you are willing to see and consciously
acknowledge some of these things will determine how well you get along.
Part of the purpose of your relationship is to bring to light and
conscious understanding to those parts of your lives that have not been
examined before. For the well-being of both of you, make sure that you
do not use the knowledge and information you have of one another as a
tool t control or manipulate each other. Especially do not abuse your
awareness of the other's psychological weaknesses and vulnerabilities.
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