In many situations, Scorpio will respond
with greater emotional intensity than Libra. While Libra is not a cool
and aloof individual, Scorpio's feelings can run deeper. For example,
both of you want a close relationship, but Scorpio can become intensely
fixated on a person and possessive, whereas Libra maintains a sense of
proportion and some reasonable degree of objectivity and emotional
distance from others, even in marriage. Scorpio's "urge to
merge" can be very powerful. Libra's approach to life, in general,
tends to be more moderate and well-balanced, while Scorpio tends to
periodically become intensely focused on some area of concern and become
even fanatical in pursuit of some interest. Libra's detached fairness
can infuriate Scorpio at times, and Scorpio's inexplicable dark moods or
fervent responses bewilder Libra. These differences need not create
serious problems in your relationship. Emotional bonds between you can
be very strong, especially if other astrological indications indicate
strong romantic or sexual ties.
Libra is friendly, sociable, and
agreeable, with a gracious, personable manner that others find very
congenial. Libra enjoys people and wants so much to be liked and to be
surrounded with pleasantness that Libra often avoids confronting people
and dealing with anger and conflict in personal relationships. Scorpio,
on the other hand, has a quiet disposition that makes much emotional
complexity and sensitivity. Light, superficial social interaction
doesn't interest Scorpio at all, and, in fat, frequently makes Scorpio
feel separate and lonely.
Scorpio feels a whole range of powerful
emotions – desire, jealousy, rage, fierce loving attachments or
intense loathing – and Scorpio cannot live without relating on a very
deep, intimate level, which often includes conflict and confrontation.
In fact, if things become too easy and mellow, Scorpio will (consciously
or unconsciously) provoke some trouble in a relationship. Scorpio seems
to thrive on emotional drama and intensity, while Libra very much
prefers harmony, sweetness, and peace. Scorpio is drawn to the hidden,
dark, mysterious side of life and of people, while Libra focuses on the
light and good in others. Generally Libra accepts people as they appear
to be, while Scorpio probes and analyses and is more suspicious. Also,
Scorpio can be manipulative and controlling, and may be subtly
dominating in this relationship.
You work well together on the level of
practical, mundane affairs and could function very well as business
partners. When you blend your energies, financial matters, investments,
and plans for the future security tend to work out quite well. Because
you are able to cooperate to be faithful to your shared aims and goals,
you make a successful team.
This relationship is intense and can blow
hot or cold, and in fact, is likely to go through extremes of happiness
and fulfilment as well as frustration and conflict. At times you may
feel like adversaries. You can end up in bitter power struggles with
each other, and feel like your partner is trying to manipulate you. To
prevent these problems, you must be able to accept differences of
opinion and differing goals and ambitions. Libra, especially, must avoid
dominating or undermining Scorpio's efforts. You can drive one another
to extremes.
You draw out of each other your deepest
drives and desires. The two of you arouse a zeal and sense of mission in
each other that makes it possible for you to jointly accomplish
extraordinary tasks. However, your fears and anxieties are brought to
the surface too, and there is no guarantee that your zealousness will
produce positive, constructive results. You may become fanatical in an
extreme and unbalanced manner. Also, sexual passion, jealousy, and
competition can be very volatile, disruptive, obsessive, and intense in
this relationship.
Warm affection, romantic desire, and
sexual harmony come naturally with the two of you. You'll find that
expressing yourselves sexually will simply flow, and this should be a
source of great fulfilment in your relationship, easing at least
somewhat any of the other challenges or conflicts you may have.
This is a very creative union, and very
fulfilling. In addition to the passionate element, which is quite
strong, other avenues of creative self-expression flourish when the two
of you work together. If either of you is artistically inclined, your
relationship will enhance this. On a biological level, as well, the two
of you are quite fertile.
Exciting new developments will always be
happening in this relationship. You both have good judgement about what
will and will not be pleasurable and satisfying in sexual expression.
Last minute changes of plans, based on
doubts, fears, or simply a need to be certain of all details, will occur
quite frequently in your relationship. Whether it is in regard to
travels, signing legal documents or just about any joint endeavour, one
of you will freeze up, baulk, hesitate or reconsider at the last minute.
Outer circumstances beyond the control of either of you will also
intervene. No doubt these things will sorely try your patience and good
will, but a grin-and-bear-it attitude is about the only way to meet
them. Mostly they are minor frustrations and delays, not insurmountable
obstacles.