Both of you have a strong imagination and
must have a Dream to live for – the daily round of mundane existence
would be too dull without it for either of you. Idealistic and romantic
at heart, you sympathise with one another's hopes and dreams and what
other people might call impractical fantasies. Both of you are
essentially generous souls, you dislike pettiness, and you also dislike
limitations (such as budgets, diets, schedules, etc.).
There are many differences between you,
though. Pisces is receptive and somewhat passive compared to
Sagittarius, who has a lot of restless energy and more of a need to be
physically active. Since Sagittarius's energy level is usually higher
than Pisces's is, Sagittarius can become impatient with Pisces's more
relaxed pace.
Sagittarius is very straightforward,
while Pisces is more subtle and often evasive. Also, Pisces is very
sensitive and would never make some of the blunt statements that
Sagittarius makes. Sagittarius frequently wounds Pisces this way, quite
unintentionally.
Pisces is sympathetic, dreamy, receptive,
and easily affected by people and surroundings. Pisces tends to avoid
abrasive people and situations, and often needs to retreat or withdraw
from the hustle-bustle of the world. Escape into fantasy and imagination
(or more negatively into compulsive television-watching, drinking or
drug use) may be a habit of Pisces's. Sagittarius is a dreamer also, in
a way. Faraway goals, big plans, and hopes and visions for the future
occupy Sagittarius much of the time. Pisces is more passive than
Sagittarius, but both of you are impractical. You are also emotionally
generous and sometimes do not know when to stop, where to set limits.
You both tend to go to excess or promise more than you are really
capable of.
A significant difference between you is
that Pisces has a very thin skin and is easily hurt by criticism or
unkindness. Sagittarius, on the other hand, does not take everything so
personally and can be very blunt and insensitive at times.
Both of you at times can seem cool,
emotionally distant and unavailable, or disinterested in people, but
this is only a mask. Inwardly, you are apt to feel unlovable, unworthy,
or simply afraid to open up and share yourselves. A fear of rejection
inhibits your expression of love and affection, and it may seem to you
that relationships are too troublesome and too painful to bother with.
Security may become extremely important to you, so that you are apt to
choose "safe", reliable people to be with – perhaps
individuals who are older or more established and settled than you are.
Learning to be more playful, and to overcome your fears of intimacy and
your tendency to isolate yourselves, are challenges in life that you
have in common. In one another, you may have found a wonderful friend
who understands your shy heart and your loneliness. You also have come
across one who will mirror for you some of your own most difficult life
lessons.
You will experience the heights and
depths, love and hate, attraction and repulsion, agony and ecstasy in
this relationship. A powerful, compelling fascination and irresistible
sexual attraction draws the two of you together like magnets. You love
each other with a depth of feeling that is surprising even to
yourselves. The powerful charismatic power that you have over each other
can be used to manipulate one another, and dominance, control, or
jealousy easily become hot issues between you. Whether this is a brief
passionate encounter for a lifelong attachment, you will change one
another profoundly.
You arouse unusual, perhaps strange,
feelings and yearnings in each other. You evoke feelings of sympathy,
compassion, a sensitivity to music and poetry, dreamy romanticism, and
perhaps even religious fervour. The dreamy, idealistic feelings that you
stimulate in each other makes it nearly impossible for you to see each
other in a realistic, objective light but this is not likely to bother
either of you – your idealised dreamy love for each other is much more
fun that realism! Recognise, however, that your partner does indeed have
clay feet and do not expect Perfect Love from this relationship, or you
will be sadly disillusioned.
No matter how practical and well-grounded
the two of you are as individuals, together you have some real blind
spots, things which you don't see clearly at all, or which you see
through a haze of fantasy and hope. Deception and/or self-deception can
undermine this relationship if you are not as clear, precise, and honest
with one another as you can be. It would be extremely helpful if you can
find an objective third party to give you some realistic feedback about
one another or any problems that may come up between you. Financial
business or other practical affairs which are joint endeavours should
also be checked by a competent outside party.
One troublesome tendency the two of you
have is to try to "save" one another. Attempts to rescue or
play a "helpless" victim in need of rescuing work will not
work out well. At your best, you enhance one another's sensitivity and
evoke compassion and understanding in one another. At worst, you may
deceive one another or create false images.
Your sexual compatibility leaves a lot to
be desired. Although you are fascinated by each other, there are
distinct differences about sexual experimentation.
This is a relationship that may have
struck like lightning out of the blue, and that you always have an
element of unexpected surprise, unpredictability, and uncertainty. You
will not ever settle down into a peaceful secure, unchanging pattern
with one another. If you both have a taste for adventure, and the
capacity to adapt and move with the changes, this can be exciting.
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