While Virgo is very uncomfortable with
ambiguity and is always categorising and organising life into clearly
defined compartments, Pisces is quite content to absorb lots of
seemingly contradictory ideas without having an urgent need to reconcile
them. Virgo likes to carve out an area of life and specialise in it,
developing skill and expertise in this well-defined domain, whereas
Pisces tends to drift among a wider variety of interests. Virgo likes a
neat, tidy, orderly environment, whereas Pisces's natural habitat is
cluttered, sloppy, even chaotic to an outside observer. Pisces is more
poetic while Virgo is more comfortable in the world of facts. Your
differences do not necessarily conflict with each other and there is a
good possibility that you will appreciate and understand each other
sufficiently to harmonise well. Neither of you are extremely ambitious
or egocentric; both are gentle, even shy people, and your sensitivity is
a plus in this relationship.
You are opposites in many ways, yet your
differences can be complementary and you can certainly learn a lot from
one another.
Virgo is factual, organised and efficient
in dealing with material affairs, with an eye for details. Pisces is
more imaginative and dreamy, and can be disorganised or foggy when it
comes to practical matters.
With Virgo, intellect often rules
emotions, but with Pisces feelings dominate. Pisces is sentimental and
compassionate and may give unwisely or indiscriminately to people in
need, with no sense of what is actually appropriate: Virgo also has a
helpful, nurturing side but is more dispassionate, and definitely knows
when to stop.
Also, Virgo is highly perfectionistic and
critical and often has impossibly strict or high standards for self or
others to live up to. Pisces is the opposite: tolerant, accepting,
non-judgmental, loose, often undisciplined. Virgo is drawn to this
quality of unconditional, uncritical acceptance in Pisces, and Pisces
can benefit from Virgo's sense of order, clarity and simplicity.
Both of you are timid and even somewhat
passive at times, with much sensitivity. Both are suited to work in the
helping professions or along artistic lines (with Virgo emphasising
technical ability and craftsmanship, Pisces emphasising inspiration and
imagination).
Virgo's emotional responses to Pisces are
very intense. If Pisces is physically attractive to Virgo, then the
attractive power of Pisces over Virgo is extremely powerful. However,
the attraction tends to have a love/hate quality to it, and you feel
drawn to each other, but also wary and distrustful of each other. It is
likely that you feel both drawn to each other and repulsed by each other
at the same time! The emotional response to each other is intense and
complex, and the ultimate outcome of this deep, complex emotional tie is
difficult to predict, but one thing is certain: this is not a lukewarm
relationship and you "get under each other's skin", evoking
intense feelings from each other. Virgo can easily become obsessed with
Pisces!
Your relationship has an upbeat, friendly
positive quality that makes it fun to be with each other. You help each
other laugh and take life less seriously. It is not unusual for the two
of you to have a great deal of fun playing games or even while engaging
in daily activities such as shopping, etc. You allow each other
considerable freedom; you respect each other's independence, and are
more interested in enjoying a good time together rather than dominating
or smothering each other.
A serious erosion of security, confidence
and self-esteem can occur in and through your relationship with one
another, because you will be unable to escape confronting the shadowy or
illusory aspects of yourselves, those places in your lives where you
might wish to pretend or deceive yourselves. An overall feeling of
pessimism may descend on you both from time to time, as you confront
your own inadequacies and weaknesses. Part of what this relationship is
about is learning to separate what is real from what is not, and
stripping away false images and illusions. At best, a deep and serious
attitude towards spirituality, and the desire to make your ideals a
concrete, here-and-now experience will result. Do try to avoid a heavy,
martyred, self-chastising attitude, though. A demand for perfection –
either of yourself, your partner, or the relationship – will work
against you.
Although you have opposite personalities
in some ways, you complement each other well and both of you enjoy
having a partners that takes care of many of the things that you prefer
to avoid. Bonding is very strong and you are likely to be good friends
throughout your lives.
The two of you are likely to collaborate
on community affairs, political activities, or intellectual endeavours.
Pisces encourages Virgo to participate in social groups and contribute
to society in greater measure. It is likely that the two of you will
collaborate on committees or in some kind of business. Whether your
endeavours are successful depends largely on whether you can work
together harmoniously; if you arouse anger in each other, you will end
up being adversaries or competitors instead of partners in a team.
Pisces holds an unusually strong
fascination for, and influence over, Virgo. You are drawn together by an
almost irresistible attraction, and it may be difficult for either of
you to extricate yourselves from this relationship because the bond
between you is so compelling. Very little can be hidden from one
another. Your subconscious motives, feelings, and desires are brought to
light in this relationship, which is likely to profoundly change your
attitudes towards yourselves. You are likely to feel either very much
more powerful, or heavily dominated by, your partner. This is an intense
and revealing relationship!
Sexual compatibility is strong, but could
at times be a little more adventurous.