Both of you are very open-minded,
adaptable and flexible people, who are receptive to many different
points of view and ideas. You are both also quite changeable and fluid
and sometimes inconsistent. If you are looking for a steadying hand or a
rock of Gibraltar, look elsewhere.
Gemini approaches situations or problems
in a more cerebral, rational manner, while Pisces relies more on
intuition and feelings. Gemini may sometimes try to force Pisces to
directly discuss an issue, which can be futile. Pisces may not be able
to articulate ideas in as convincing a way as Gemini, but Pisces tends
to draw upon a level of wisdom and sensitivity that is very deep, though
difficult to formulate clearly in words. Gemini is more factual, like a
reporter, and Pisces is more of a poet. You both must remember that
there is truth in both ways of understanding the world. Gemini finds
Pisces ineffable and enigmatic at times. Pisces find Gemini's nervous
energy and hectic pace rather unnerving.
Pisces is intuitive, receptive, dreamy,
and rather passive, while Gemini is more intellectual, verbal, quite
restless, an often overly active or compulsively busy. Pisces has the
sensitive temperament of a mystic, musician, or artist, while Gemini is
more of a scientist or intellectual, fluent with logic and with
language. Gemini is also something of a comedian, and must be careful
not to make fun of something Pisces is sensitive about.
Gemini is emotionally light, detached,
and able to be quite objective, while Pisces is very compassionate and
can easily drown in emotions.
Both of you have very changeable moods
and you are both open, impressionable, flexible, and sometimes flighty.
If Gemini can learn to respect Pisces's
feelings, intuitions, and sensitivity, and Pisces can appreciate
Gemini's rational, detached perspective, the two of you can get along
very well.
The two of you do not always see
eye-to-eye on issues, and it is very easy for Gemini to become critical
of Pisces. Compounding the problem is Pisces's tendency to be very
sensitive to criticism from Gemini and consequently react defensively to
this criticism. This need not be a serious problem however; a little
tolerance for each other's right to disagree and respect for individual
differences is all it takes to make personal differences stimulating
rather than annoying.
A lack of clarity and realism is destined
to be one of the challenges in your relationship. It will, for instance,
be very easy for you to project upon one another and upon your
relationship all sorts of images which have very little correlation with
the truth. Hopes, dreams, and other unconscious forces colour your
perceptions when the two of you are together. Intentional fabrications,
deceits, or even subtle implications which are neither precisely true
nor absolutely false, can complicate your relationship considerably.
Even with the purest of intentions, you both are apt to shake your heads
from time to time, wondering "what is going on here?"
This relationship is destined to face
some major obstacles, and it may be very difficult for the two of you to
even come together in the first place. Some emotional distancing, which
may take the form of one or both of you feeling very resistant or even
"turned off" by the other, can be expected right from the
start. One the other hand, outside circumstances may prevent you from
the full sharing you would wish. In either case, unrequited and
unfulfilled love will be a theme in your relationship.
Love and sexual expression can be
difficult at times, your rhythm may be out, on many occasions. Premature
ejaculation or early orgasm may occur.
Pisces enjoys acting childish and silly
with Gemini. You enjoy playing games with each other, and there is also
a strong element of fantasy and imagination in your romantic and sexual
life.
The two of you will often get a little
crazy or outrageous together, and have a great time doing it! You
inspire one another to be spontaneous and to break out of restraints or
inhibitions, which can be joyfully liberating or lead to foolish
excesses and imprudent risk-taking. Your more adventurous,
unconventional, or freedom-loving sides are sparked by one another and
there is an element of unpredictability which makes your relationship
feel alive. You'll experience many new discoveries and serendipitous
happenings with one another.
There is a strong romantic quality to
your relationship, but you will also experience times when the qualities
of your partner contrast sharply with the qualities that you had
envisioned that your "Ideal Lover" would have. Do not try to
force your partner to conform to your desires; each person must be true
to themselves.