Both of you are outgoing, friendly
people. You enjoy socialising and you enjoy each other's company
immensely. Very often Sagittarius provides extra "zing" to the
relationship with lots of grandiose ideas, dreams, visions, and restless
wanderlust. Libra helps provide a more balanced, sensible perspective
while usually being sympathetic to Sagittarius as well. However,
sometimes your joint activities may fail to b fruitful. Libra is often
prone to go along with people even when there are lots of doubts.
Sagittarius may enthusiastically talk Libra into ventures that Libra
should have the sense to question rather than meekly accept. Overall,
though, this is likely to be a most enjoyable relationship.
For the most part you get along very
harmoniously. You are both idealistic and you prefer to see the good and
noble and beautiful in life and in people (even when that means ignoring
the plain facts about a person!). You are both open and tolerant, and
you enjoy mixing with others, going out, and socialising.
There are differences between you,
though. Sagittarius is quite candid, often to the point of being blunt,
though in a good-natured manner, while Libra is generally very
diplomatic and gracious. Sagittarius has strong convictions and beliefs
and expresses them very openly, while Libra may not take a strong stance
to avoid offending someone. Libra is more personable and more aware of
other people's responses, while Sagittarius is cheerfully oblivious to
others' responses and feelings at times. Sagittarius is sometimes
boisterous and outrageous, while Libra's behaviour is always in good
taste.
Also, Libra needs companionship and a lot
of affection, and may feel insecure without a close partner. Sagittarius
is more independent and sometimes enjoys going off on a solitary
adventure.
One strong factor that attracted you to
each other is the feeling that you can have a deep, stable, permanent
relationship and settle down together, facing life's responsibilities in
a mature way, tackling challenges together such as raising children,
becoming financially secure, etc. These concerns can gradually cause
your relationship to become too absorbed with "serious"
matters, causing both of you to feel limited and stifled by the
relationship. Libra has a strong tendency to criticise and judge
Sagittarius's actions, sometimes accurately and sometimes unjustly.
Libra should guard against this tendency to dampen Sagittarius's
enthusiasm, and Sagittarius needs to avoid being overly sensitive to
Libra's suggestions and criticisms. Libra's tendency to dominate,
control, or even repress Sagittarius makes Sagittarius resentful at
times, and Sagittarius may feel lowered vitality and self-confidence
after being with Libra for a long time. You must make room for lightness
and play, or you both will feel burdened and the tone that is set
between you.
Together you can build a solid, secure
relationship, a place of refuge and strength, but you must take care not
to make it a prison with too much emphasis on commitment,
responsibility, and duty. Libra, in particular, has a strong parental
attitude towards Sagittarius, providing stability and support, yet also
restricting, disciplining, or criticising Sagittarius's emotional,
childish needs. Libra can be cool and indifferent towards Sagittarius's
neediness. A pessimistic, heavy, serious atmosphere may develop between
the two of you.
The mental rapport that you two share is
a big reason why you enjoy each other's company and are good friends.
Communication is open and harmonious. You work together very well on
practical affairs, daily chores, problem-solving, and business
activities.
Libra's more mature, responsible,
reliable side comes out in this relationship. Libra becomes almost
paternalistic in this relationship, always being concerned about
Sagittarius's well-being. Libra is also inclined to offer lots of
critical advice, at times interfering too much with Sagittarius's plans
and goals. Libra's "helpful criticism" sometimes sours into
moralistic judgements. Libra should be wary of the tendency to control
or severely limit Sagittarius's sense of freedom.
Libra enjoys performing chores for
Sagittarius, and also takes an interest in Sagittarius's work and
health. Libra enjoys assisting Sagittarius in practical ways and the two
of you are able to buckle down together and accomplish a great deal.
Sexual attraction is very strong, but as
with other things, one of you is likely to come on too strong to the
other and this may be offensive to your partner. There is a driving,
compelling, somewhat impersonal quality to your love-making at times.
Sometimes, you may be highly motivated to
try out new and unusual forms of sexual expression. Other times, you may
prefer a more conservative approach. You both enjoy your sex, a total
union. It will never be for entertainment.