Both of you are good listeners and you
are receptive to others' points of view, and you dislike having to
engage in competitive behaviour or aggressive tactics in order to get
your point across or receive fair treatment. You appreciate that your
partner shares your gentle attitude. Libra, however, may sometimes feel
that Pisces is too gentle and receptive, being evasive or vague when
asked questions or unable to be definite and articulate. Libra thrives
on dialogue while Pisces often prefers to simply take in lots of ideas
and ponder them for a long time before offering a point of view. Libra
also has a strong sense of justice and quality and can be vengeful
towards those who are seen as unjust, while Pisces is more likely to
feel compassion and sympathy even for those who are guilty.
Both of you are peace-loving and need a
harmonious, non-competitive atmosphere in your home. Both of you avoid
conflict as much as possible and Pisces in particular is something of a
pacifist, at least in personal relationships.
There are differences between you,
though. Pisces has little sense of limits or boundaries, and may be very
comfortable in a rather fluid, disorderly, even chaotic, sort of
atmosphere. Libra has a highly developed sense of balance, proportion,
and symmetry, and naturally seeks order.
Moderation, appropriateness, and a happy
medium are important to Libra, while Pisces tends to go to excess in
everything. For instance, Pisces is essentially very generous and
compassionate and will give endlessly and indiscriminately to someone
with a sad story. Pisces often becomes involved in relationships where
one person is primarily the giver or helper and the other is dependent
and needy, the receiver in the relationship. Libra, on the other hand,
seeks a reciprocal relationship between equals and is very much aware of
how much each person has given and taken. Libra wants the scales to be
balanced.
Also, Pisces is very emotional,
physically receptive and intuitive, while Libra is more unemotional and
rational in comparison.
Both of you can be very passionate and
driven, and work or achievement can become an obsession for you.
Whenever a desire makes itself felt in either of you, tremendous energy
is released and you will pour yourself wholeheartedly, even
compulsively, into fulfilling it – sometimes to the detriment of your
health, relationships, or other areas of your lives. Using force and
will appropriately, is easier for Pisces than for Libra. When Libra's
will or desires are blocked, Libra is prone to become intensely angry,
and possibly destructive. Libra wrestles with the destructive side of
anger, and may fear anger and/or claiming personal power. The tendency
to block rage and the necessity of learning to release it in
constructive ways is one of Libra's lessons – something Pisces may
well be able to help with.
This is likely to be a stormy, fiery, and
emotional relationship. The romantic attraction between you is very
strong, but your feelings are often not in tune with each other. One of
you (typically Pisces but sometimes Libra) may feel sexually aroused by
the other and consequently be too aggressive in approach, while the
other person feels great love and affection, but is not feeling as
sexually attracted. Jealousy and possessiveness are also likely.
Feelings can swing back and forth and you may not realise how much you
love each other until you are away from each other.
You may have a needless fear of the
unknown in matters of sexual exploration. Some hesitation may be
indicated by one partner. Insecurity and anxiety may cause the odd
frustration in enjoying a powerful orgasm.
Mishandling your shared assets, spending
too freely or on the wrong things, wanting more than you can really
afford, excessiveness, waste, overindulgence – these will become
issues in your relationship. As a duo, you may be drawn into
get-rich-quick schemes or into a pattern of buy-now-pay-later, which
will haunt you later. In some ways, a laxness and desire for ease will
become trouble for you. Part of the purpose of your coming together is
to learn to discern and discriminate between what you truly need to be
greatly happy, and what are simply trappings. A redefinition of what
constitutes "the good life" will emerge.
Handling of daily chores and tasks can
get very disorganised in your relationship, particularly if you live
together or are married. Pisces, in particular, may feel that it is an
endless battle trying to maintain an orderly life. Your daily routines
change frequently and you often switch roles. For example, it is likely
that sometimes Libra may take care of cooking and cleaning, and then
Pisces assumes the responsibility, rather than one person always
handling the same responsibilities. If you try to force a rigid system,
you will find that it is not comfortable for either of you.