Both of you invest enormous energy and
time into personal relationships, and you both feel incomplete without a
partner for companionship, conversation, and affection. For both of you,
an experience isn't really satisfying unless it is SHARED.
You both possess tact, diplomacy, charm,
and a very strong desire for harmony in relationships. Furthermore, you
both tend to want to please everyone all of the time, to be liked by
everyone, and therefore you often avoid taking strong, decisive stands
or directly confronting thorny interpersonal problems. You want things
to be nice, pretty, and pleasant. You are apt to adapt your own
preferences or change your position to suit your partner.
However, both of you also have a highly
developed sense of fairness, balance, and proportion. Equality is very
important to the two of you and in this relationship (as perhaps in no
other) you will certainly have an equal relationship, with neither of
you dominating.
Beauty is very important to both of you,
also, and many of your discussions revolve around issues of taste and
style.
You blend very well together and
instinctively understand one another. Courtesy, consideration, tact, and
diplomacy come naturally to both of you, for you have a strong desire to
please people and to avoid unpleasantness or conflict in your personal
lives. Both of you want very much to be liked and approved of all of the
time, and you may avoid taking any strong or extreme point of view in
order to avoid offending anyone. Both of you can be indecisive (even in
such minor matters as which restaurant to go to, which film to see,
etc.), and often you depend on someone else to make a definite choice.
For both of you, the most important thing is to BE TOGETHER. You may
feel quite insecure or incomplete without a partner.
You both value fairness highly and will
try to be equitable and just in your dealings with one another. The
ideal of the perfect relationship in which both partners share equally
in everything appeals to you. You are likely to spend a lot of time
talking, sharing and explaining your points of view to one another and,
when necessary, trying to negotiate a fair compromise when you disagree.
Aesthetics are very important to both of
you, and you could create a very lovely, harmonious, pleasing home
together.
You strongly identify with each other and
are very much alike in important ways. It is easy for you to be together
because you do not have to explain yourselves to one another. An innate
appreciation and understanding of one another's essence exists between
you, and this is vitalising and ego-affirming for both of you. However,
you share the same flaws and weaknesses as well as the positive
qualities, and you may find it difficult to be with someone who so
clearly exhibits the very things you like least about yourself. The more
you accept yourself, the more beneficial and delightful your
relationship with one another is.
Talking and sharing ideas is highlighted
in your relationship. You enjoy learning new things together and
exchanging points of view. You work well together in planning,
organising, theorising, writing, or communicating ideas in any manner.
You work together effectively on daily chores, problems, or business
activities.
You are very special to each other and
you both probably recognise that you have found a person that embodies
many of the qualities of your "Ideal Mate". Love, sweetness,
tenderness, and appreciation permeate your relationship. A strong desire
to please each other, and to cooperate, makes you a very harmonious
couple.
Regardless of how others view you, you
find each other to be very attractive and beautiful. You see the
charming, sweet side of each other and there is a great attraction and
appreciation of each other. The romantic aspect of your relationship is
strong.
You feel open and uninhibited with each
other, and can express your feelings spontaneously and without reserve.
You enjoy joking and kidding around with each other. If both of you
enjoy dancing or playing music, you could make wonderful partners in
dance and/or music. Sexual compatibility is also very high.
With sexual expression, you both insist
that the partnership be equal, not in static mode. Reversing sexual
roles will make your relationship more interesting and lively. In
physical expression and affection, you are both considerate and easy to
please.
Circumstances develop so that the two of
you become very active together in community affairs, socialising, or
political/social action. Together the two of you explore many social
circles and develop a wide variety of friends and acquaintances.