Libra is very social and prefers a life
style that involves lots of interaction with others. For example, a job
that does not involve communication with others is very distasteful to
Libra. Capricorn is more concerned with career, stature, and practical
affairs than Libra, and many times Libra wishes that Capricorn would
lighten up, take life less seriously, and simply be more fun to be with.
Capricorn seems a little old-fashioned at times too, which is frequently
not agreeable with Libra. You can help complement each other also, with
Capricorn contributing more to establishing a secure, well-founded plan
for your lives and the future of your children (if you are married and
have children), while Libra takes the time to maintain social contacts
and keep life in balance, making sure that pressures of work and other
responsibilities do not become overwhelming. Pleasure and aesthetics are
important to Libra, and less so to Capricorn. Also, Capricorn tends to
be autocratic and Libra is more democratic or egalitarian.
Libra is a warm, affectionate person who
needs people, especially a very close, loving partner to share life
with. Conversation, companionship, togetherness, and being half of a
tight couple are very important to Libra. Capricorn is often more
self-sufficient emotionally, or is afraid of neediness, dependency and
emotional vulnerability. Libra finds security in personal relationships,
while Capricorn finds it in work, accomplishment, and material success.
Capricorn in fact, takes life seriously and tends to work more than
necessary, while Libra is more balanced and wants to spend time
socialising or relaxing more than Capricorn does.
Capricorn must be very careful not to
harshly criticise or judge Libra. There is a strong tendency for Libra
to feel blocked, frustrated, and discouraged by Capricorn. Typically,
Capricorn will feel surprised by Libra's feelings of frustration and
anger, and feel that Libra is just being overly sensitive to criticism.
There is an element of truth to both viewpoints: Capricorn tends to be
too critical of Libra and Libra tends to be too sensitive to the
criticism; the combination can be disastrous! Libra may try to ignore
the problem, but ignoring the problem will not cause the problem to
disappear. This is a relationship that can help both of you mature a
great deal; you are able to build a secure, stable life together and
face many challenges and responsibilities together that you have been
trying to avoid. However, the tendency to become overly concerned with
your responsibilities and to be too conservative, cautious, and
restrictive towards each other must not get out of hand, or you will
both feel severely confined and restricted by being together.
There is a poetic, fanciful quality to
your conversations. Capricorn brings out the poet and dreamer in Libra.
Communications on practical matters, however, may suffer and you both
need to be wary of exaggerating or hiding, or deceiving each other. When
with Capricorn, Libra is often confused, less clear and less precise
than usual.
Irritations over relatively minor
incidents and situations, combined with a tendency to have differing
tastes, preferences, and interests may make an intimate, long-lasting
relationship difficult. You do care a great deal for each other, though,
and both of you feel exceedingly bad after a quarrel. If you can be
tolerant of each other's differing attitudes, interests, and lifestyles,
the negative tendencies of this astrological influence will be minimised.
Your relationship may or may not be long
lasting, but it will always have a flavour of unpredictability,
spontaneity, and surprise. Periodic unexpected events and changes create
an unsettled feeling between you, as if you can never quite relax and
settle down into a comfortable, established pattern. While you will
never be bored with one another, neither will you ever feel quite
certain or peacefully secure. However, if your temperaments enable you
to be highly flexible and adventurous and willing to take risks, you may
be able to ride through the ups and downs.
You are destined to act as
"awakeners" for one another. One of you may open the other to
something totally new and different, even shocking, which revolutionises
the way you view the world and your place in it – something you may
once have considered weird or too "far out". Always there will
be the element of experimentation, of following the unexpected twist in
the road. Being with one another encourages you both to be more free,
unconventional, and impulsive than you might be otherwise.
You love each other very deeply and the
attraction between you is very strong, but your relationship is also
prone to emotional ups and downs. It is not unusual for the quality of
feelings that you have for each other to be quite different and this can
lead to misunderstandings. For example, Libra may be in a romantic mood
at a given time while Capricorn is feeling friendly, but not romantic.
The roles sometimes reverse, and you find that your feelings frequently
just won't synchronise. You also easily hurt each other's feelings, not
realising how much the other person loves and cherishes you. By being
flexible and adaptable, and really trying to sympathise with each other,
you can avoid these problems most of the time.
Sexual rhythm can be very much out of
tune in this relationship. One partner may even find difficulty reaching
a climax or having a hearty orgasm. Long hours of foreplay or
masturbation may be necessary to assist the overall sexual expression.
Your intellectual rapport is very good.
You share lots of ideas and interests in community affairs, political or
social issues, and various clubs and organisations.
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