A basic difference in your personalities
is that Libra likes to look at both sides of an issue and consider any
situation from every angle. Libra likes to discuss ideas with others,
get their opinion, and sometimes has difficulty coming to a definitive
decision. Aries is prone to be just the opposite, taking a strong, more
one-sided view of a situation and frequently is uninterested in hearing
others' point of view. In order for your relationship to work, you will
have to reconcile this basic difference in your personalities. Over
time, Libra may feel that Aries is a selfish egotist and Aries may feel
that Libra is a weak-willed wimp. Obviously, you will need to have
greater appreciation and respect for each other than this! Libra makes
many more compromises and accommodations for the relationship than Aries
does.
The two of you are opposites in many ways
and you are each drawn to the qualities in your partner that you lack.
Libra doesn't really feel complete
without a love partners, and instinctively knows how to share, blend
with, and harmonize with people, while Aries is more self-reliant and
assertive, and often rather inconsiderate of others' needs and desires.
Aries instinctively takes charge and tends to run the show, while Libra
is the conciliator and compromiser in your relationship.
Libra depends a great deal on others'
approval, often lacks a strong sense of self or personal direction, and
may simply go along with Aries much of the time, for Aries has stronger
preferences and less willingness to accommodate a partner's wishes.
Libra wants togetherness, while Aries needs time to go off alone and be
a free agent sometimes. Also, Aries is rather impulsive and volatile,
and is prone to outburst of temper, while Libra is more rational and
often avoids unpleasant emotions, especially anger. Therefore, Libra may
appear to be the nice, likeable "good guy" in the
relationship, while Aries is cast in the role of the trouble maker.
When personal problems arise, Libra wants
to discuss them with a counselor or friend, is open to suggestion and
others' opinions, and wants to negotiate a fair, equitable solution.
Aries is less likely to seek outside help and may have little patience
for taking and airing the problem, unless some clear, concrete change
results.
Libra embodies many of the
characteristics that Aries is seeking in a mate or partner, and Aries
finds Libra irresistibly appealing for this reason. Libra is also the
polar opposite of Aries in many ways, so that you complement or balance
one another very well. However, the very qualities that originally were
so attractive may become sources of friction between you. Aries, don't
expect Libra to be like you are! One of the gifts Libra ahs for you is
to show you "the other side of the coin". For instance, if you
are very logical and rational, your partner may have a highly intuitive
or poetic mind (or vice versa). Instead of accusing your partner of
being irrational or fuzzy-minded, try to appreciate that difference
between you.
Sparks fly when you come into contact
with one another! Strong feelings of love, attraction, warmth, mutual
admiration, and appreciation bring you together, and you are able to
express your love feelings openly and fully to one another. You can be
great friends and companions as well as lovers.
Sex can be a source of limitless
entertainment and attraction for the both of you. Variety in sexual
exchange, may cause you both to experiment with lovemaking.
Enchantment, dreamy romanticism, and
quixotic vision of one another and yourselves as a couple, will tone
your entire relationship. You may try to be your finest selves - the
most loving, compassionate, giving and devoted of friends to one
another.
Bonding is strong and the two of you are
able to work together effectively in achieving goals and objectives. If
you share a similar hobby or profession, you can jointly develop
creative works of high quality - a result of your combined dedication.
As your relationship deepens, you will find that the two of you are able
to assist each other immensely in achieving the goals and objectives
that are most meaningful and important to you.
Aries often checks or throws a damper on
Libra's spontaneous impulses and self-expression, which is frustrating
to Libra, and can be a source of resentment if it continues for too
long. Aries makes Libra question and doubt Libra's actions which can be
a good thing in small doses, especially if Libra tends to be rash or
foolhardy. However, Aries must avoid becoming a "heavy" in
Libra's life, always the nay-sayer or disciplinarian.