Both of you are very social, active
people. You are involved in community groups, and your line of work
probably brings you into contact with lots of people. You harmonise well
with each other and are great friends.
Aquarius is very attached to clubs,
social groups, and colleagues. Libra may feel that Aquarius needs
friends more than a marriage partner or lover. In fact, Libra devotes
much more attention to any close partnership. This difference in
orientation is fairly subtle, however, and may not be a source of
difficulty or conflict. You both tend to life in your minds, and enjoy a
partner who is awake and alive mentally – an intellectual peer.
Fortunately, you have this in one another.
Your relationship is apt to have a light,
airy, friendly, and not overly emotional tone to it. Both of you are
able to be somewhat detached and objective about your personal
situation.
Sharing ideas, common interests,
conversation, books, and intellectual pleasures are a satisfying aspect
of your relationship.
You share ideas too, often about how
people "should" relate to one another: fairness, equality,
non-possessiveness, respect for each other's individual differences and
autonomy, and open communication on all subjects are likely to be among
them.
The major difference between you is that
Libra is much more personal and romantic, and is more inclined to need a
partner in order to feel complete, while Aquarius is more independent
and eschews too much emotional neediness and dependency.
Also, Aquarius has a rebellious streak
and enjoys flouting convention at times, while Libra is very concerned
with social acceptance, appropriate social behaviour, and good manners.
Neither of you is particularly
conventional, nor are you great lovers of rules and formal traditions
for their own sake, but Aquarius is apt to have a much harder time
conforming, and may in fact openly scorn or rebel against such
limitations. There is apt to be a great deal of change, constant motion,
fluctuating circumstances, and disorganisation in Aquarius's life,
whereas Libra embraces necessary changes and flows with them but doesn't
seem to need to create upsetting and unstable situations all of the
time. Libra can help Aquarius learn how to be true to oneself and one's
own beliefs and nature without needing to always rail against "the
establishment" or "the system".
You spark each other's ambitions and
hopes. You find yourselves scheming together, developing business plans,
and strategies or achieving success. You encourage each other to set
your goals high and it is likely that you will undertake several joint
ventures together. Over-optimism and unrealistic hopes are your
liabilities; enthusiastic hard work is your asset.
At best, the two of you will take your
relationship with each other seriously, and are willing to work on the
problems you have. A strong sense of responsibility, even obligation,
toward one another permeates your bond. However, you are apt to feel
that all you do is work on the relationship, that I is beset with
difficulties, disappointments, and a sense of heaviness, and that there
is meager reward for all of the effort required. There will be very
little easy pleasure and lighthearted sweetness. Your affections turn
cool, even cold, toward one another when you let the burdens you share
become the sole focus of your togetherness. It is rather easy for
distance and separateness to grow between the two of you.
Uncanny and inexplicable events and
forces beyond your control will severely challenge your joint efforts.
Overcoming these situations will demand of you both all of your reserves
and power. As a couple it will seem that you are always fighting
something. If you focus on cooperating and directing your energies into
work, a shared objective, or doing battle with outside adversaries you
can accomplish extraordinary things. If, however, you fight and compete
with one another, the results will be much more destructive. Furious
struggles over power may ensue, and the degree of fury and anger
unleashed would be truly awesome. These battles could occur in the
bedroom, also. Above all do not try to force your will or fundamentally
alter the other's essential nature, because this will be the gasoline on
the fire that could burn the whole house down.
Sexual attraction is very strong, but as
with other things, one of you is likely to come on too strong to the
other and this may be offensive to your partner. There is a driving,
compelling, somewhat impersonal quality to your love-making at times.
New styles of lovemaking holds real
enjoyment for you both. When you decide on something different you will
venture, full steam ahead.
Libra introduces new social circles to
Aquarius. There are many surprises in store for both of you in this
regard, and it is likely that you find many of each other's friends to
be a bit difficult to feel comfortable around. Aquarius, in particular,
is likely to find that social life changes a lot through this
relationship. Libra can sometimes even be disruptive and disturbing to
Aquarius's friendships, which could make Aquarius feel it necessary to
choose between Libra and friends, which would be upsetting to your whole
relationship. Positively, Libra will introduce fresh perspectives,
enthusiasm and inspiration to Aquarius's social life.