Capricorn's more emotionally detached,
reserved, down-to-earth and somewhat cynical or sceptical attitude
contrasts with Leo's warm enthusiasm and basically cheerful temperament.
In your personal style and tastes, also, this difference is very
apparent: Capricorn prefers the classics, simple elegance, and either a
very conservative traditional style or an austere less-is-more,
keep-it-simple style. Leo has a generous, lavish hand and loves rich
colour, warmth, and brilliance that borders on gaudiness. Sometimes,
this translates into emotional terms also. Capricorn is more careful,
cooler, less inclined to gamble, wants a sure thing. Leo is more open to
expressive and arm and needs an abundance of appreciation and affection
– more than Capricorn is inclined to give sometimes. One thing you do
have in common: you both take your commitments to heart, and you prize
fidelity and loyalty.
Capricorn's essentially sober,
conservative, and cautious disposition contrasts with Leo's exuberant,
generous, dramatic temperament. Leo's tastes are lavish, bold and
colourful, while Capricorn prefers a subdued, simple quietly elegant
style.
Whereas Capricorn downplays emotions and
emotional displays, Leo often exaggerates them. Like a child, Leo is
eager for attention, love, praise, and recognition from others, while
Capricorn, ever the adult, rarely admits needing people in that way.
Capricorn is, or appears to be, more self-sufficient emotionally. While
Leo is usually quite warm and personable, Capricorn is frequently
detached, formal, and businesslike with people. For Capricorn, sharing
is shown by dedication and faithfulness or by practical assistance –
"actions not words", and Leo sometimes craves more warm
attention from Capricorn.
Also, Leo is more of an optimist by
nature, whereas Capricorn tends towards pessimism or at least a
clear-eyed realism. Leo's cheerfulness can lighten Capricorn's mood when
Capricorn becomes too serious (which is frequently).
Wit, intelligence, and an active mind are
attributes the two of you share, and in your relationship there will be
a focus on communicating, bantering, a lot of verbal give and take. Both
of you tend to be the dominant one in any discussion or debate, and you
may find yourselves completing with each other in your discussions. This
most likely will not be a major problem, but both of you would do well
to step back and truly listen to one another.
A serious erosion of security,
confidence, and self-esteem can occur in and through your relationship
with one another, because you will be able to escape confronting the
shadowy or illusory aspects of yourselves, those places in your lives
where you might wish to pretend or deceive yourselves. An overall
feeling of pessimism may descent on you both from time to time, as you
confront your own inadequacies and weaknesses. Part of what this
relationship is about is learning to separate what is real from what is
not, and stripping away false images and illusions. At best, a deep and
serious attitude toward spirituality, and the desire to make your ideals
a concrete, here-and-now experience will result.
Your love for each other has a very
dreamy, idealistic, and romantic quality. You are infatuated with each
other, sometimes almost hypnotised by each other. You tend to have
glamorous and idealistic notions of each other that are far removed from
reality. This relationship is prone to major disappointments when you
each discover that your partner is not as perfect as imagined.
Disillusionment and disappointment are likely, but you can mitigate this
tendency if you allow yourself to enjoy the dreamy romanticism without
projecting your wildest fantasies onto your partner, believing you have
found the companion of your dreams.
At times both of you may be uncertain and
confused about how you should assert yourselves in a sexual
relationship. Sometimes your rhythm is completely out, or accepted
procedure does not seem to work. Leo has a direct approach towards sex,
whereas Capricorn, tends to be more conservative yet faithful. Both of
you may prefer having specific boundaries of sexual expression, rather
than emotional free-for-all. Climaxing together may be a problem at
times – stamina may be required, with a little patience.
You work well together on the level of
practical, mundane affairs and could function very well as business
partners. When you blend your energies, financial matters, investments,
and plans for future security tend to work out quite well. Because you
are able to cooperate to be faithful to your shared aims and goals, you
make a successful team.