Both of you are curious, witty, and
talkative people. Like children, you love to explore, you love variety
and become easily bored, and you don't take life as seriously as most
other people. You enjoy the companionship and intellectual playfulness
of one another. You both love to talk. Variety and change are the bread
and butter of your lives, and although you may occasionally wish that
life was more settled and less hectic, you know that such an existence
would be much too dull for you!
You have certain potential weaknesses in
common, which come to the fore when you are together: you are too ready
to give up (on a project or a relationship) when it becomes difficult or
demanding. You also tend to live in your head and avoid paying attention
to your feelings. Together you may get caught up in word games,
intellectual sparring, and light banter. You use humor to gloss over
serious topics and deep emotional issues.
You are attracted to one another's wit,
humor, playful intelligence, and mental agility. You share an eager
curiosity about everything and a restlessness with staid people or
situations. You both need a lot of mental stimulation and you thrive on
talking and interacting with a wide spectrum of people
Both of you respond logically or
intellectually to situations, and you may ignore or simply be unaware of
your own (or others') feelings. For instance, when asked "how do
you feel about it', you are likely to say "I think…" rather
than responding with a feeling. You like to keep your interactions
"light" because you are very uncomfortable with emotional
displays, tears, or complex emotional dilemmas for which there are no
logical solutions.
Your emotional detachment and tendency to
make light of things that, for other people, are heavily charged with
emotion can be very frustrating to some people. They may feel you are
superficial or that you don't care enough. But the two of you are quite
similar and you have a rapport that enables you to understand one
another's humor and style.
You enjoy each other's company immensely
and you put each other in a happy mood. You make each other laugh and
you feel very open, loose, and jovial around each other. You will also
include others in your lives, expand your circle of friends, and allow
one another a good deal of freedom, rather than being exclusive or
possessive about one another. There is a great deal of generosity
between you, and you may benefit one another financially and materially
as well as emotionally. A wonderful friendship!
In your relationship there will always be
an element of eccentricity and spontaneity, and of encouraging each
other to be free and uninhibited. Even if one or both of you is usually
rather conservative or possessive, you can and will be less so with one
another. You are not meant to be too tight, exclusive, or heavy-handed
with one another; you need to give one another a lot of space and
freedom.
At times there is a rather impersonal and
detached feeling between you - not necessarily because you are
distancing yourselves emotionally, but because you are relating to one
another intellectually, as autonomous, thinking individuals, rather than
as a couple.
There is a great similarity in your
moods, instinctive responses to life, and emotional needs. Many of your
personal tastes and habits are also similar. This similarity in
temperaments promotes domestic harmony and a naturally cooperative
feeling for each other. You enjoy making a home together or living
together, as you instinctively know what makes your partner comfortable
and happy.
When you are together, deep emotions are
intense, compelling, irrational energies within both of you come into
play. Definitely, if you are together for any length of time, you will
both undergo an emotional transformation, a soul cleansing, for being
together will dredge up all of your unfinished emotional business and
feelings you may not even have believed yourselves capable of. This may
feel like a "fatal attraction", one that is irresistable even
if one or both of you wants to run the other way.
With sexually, your greatest pleasure may
come from gentle, sensuous touching and stroking. Intercourse is
important to you, however, you can be quite satisfied in a relationship
that is stacked with variety and verbal communication. Bedroom movies,
toys and gadgets may interest you and your partner. Acting out sexual
fantasies can be quite fulfilling. You will grow bored in your
relationship together if the sexual and physical expression is always
the same.