The two of you are very different!
Capricorn approaches life in a much more methodical, planned, patient
manner than Gemini. Capricorn uses a clear strategy and is willing to
work hard for many long years to gradually achieve the intended goal.
Capricorn is capable of great reliability and dedication, and will, for
example, be willing to work through years of school until the desired
degree is achieved. Gemini may also be successful, but the route is very
different. Gemini succeeds through curiosity, flexibility and
adaptability and communication skills. Unlike Capricorn, Gemini is not
inclined to persevere through the dry periods but rather moves on the
more interesting material once a point of stagnation is reached. Both
approaches can work, but they are different and you may reach points in
your lives where you cannot come to an agreement on the proper path to
take.
Capricorn often seems like the adult in
the relationship and can feel too conservative or serious to Gemini.
Gemini is more like the child (or adolescent), being more flexible and
playful but also less reliable and consistent.
Though very different, the two of you can
complement one another. Capricorn is serious, disciplined, and
conscientious almost to a fault. Practical and dutiful, Capricorn has a
strong need to achieve, and becomes self-condemning and unhappy if not
accomplishing enough. Overwork or an over-emphasis on obligations can
take all of the fun out of life for Capricorn. Gemini, on the other
hand, has a mischievous sense of humour and can lighten Capricorn's mood
considerably.
In contrast to Capricorn, Gemini may also
be irresponsible and careless, which annoys Capricorn. Gemini just
doesn't take everything as seriously as Capricorn does.
In your relationship, Gemini may play the
role of the adolescent (lively, playful, but uncommitted or lacking
direction), while Capricorn plays the mature, responsible adult.
The two of you frequently approach work
and goals in very different ways, and consequently you are inclined to
step on each other's toes. Capricorn may feel that Gemini is pushy or
insensitive to all of the issues and concerns that are involved in a
situation. You can work together very effectively, but it requires you
to allow each other the freedom to approach problems in a very different
way than you would. Very often you can accomplish more by working
separately from each other on different aspects of a problem rather than
attempting to work jointly.
You energise, stimulate, provoke,
inflame, and challenge one another! You can also irritate, anger, fight,
push, and drive each other! Together you can accomplish an enormous
amount of work, and it is important to you to share vigorous physical
activities as an outlet for some of the fire you stir up in one another.
Strong sexual desire and physical love are also big factors in your
relationship.
You both may prefer the established
styles of love-making, however, repetition can become boring. Capricorn
can at times be rather prudish to Gemini, you may not benefit from
sexual experimentation. You often may encounter obstacles to getting
satisfaction in love. At times one partner may be turned off by a total
lack of desire for sexual expression.
There is a marked tendency towards
argumentativeness and sharp words between you which will need to be
worked with if it is not to become an overriding dynamic in your
relationship. Petty bickering and insistence on doing things in your own
ways can even lead to minor accidents, especially when travelling
together. Long distance automobile rides may be especially irritating.
One of the purposes of your relationship
is to learn how to honestly discuss conflict and how to assert and
communicate your personal desires. If you can find ways to do this
without alienating or warring with each other, you will have fulfilled
one of the functions of your being together.
There is an upbeat, enthusiastic,
spontaneous quality to your relationship. You spark each other's
imagination, creativity, and wit. You feel loose and uninhibited with
each other, and you enjoy exploring life and sharing new experiences.
Also, if you both enjoy dancing or playing music, you have found a
wonderful dance and/or music partner. You spark each other's sense of
rhythm, and you can work together very spontaneously, yet gracefully.