Both of you are very practical, realistic
people. You set clear goals in life and you are persistent, reliable
workers that eventually reach a high level of success. Together you can
build a secure and stable life. You appreciate the high level of
integrity, maturity, and responsibility that you share with your
partner. You could be a very successful team in business activities as
well. A lack of zest and liveliness in your lives may develop,
particularly if you have been married to each other for a long time.
Both of you have a great deal of objectivity and emotional detachment,
but this can degrade into the undesirable qualities of boredom, apathy,
or heartlessness. If your relationship and your lives become too filled
with mundane concerns, too centred around responsibilities and business,
you should both consider engaging in light, childish activities and
entertainments on occasion, and remember to laugh heartily at least once
a day!
Because your emotional natures and deeply
ingrained attitudes are so similar, you understand one another very
well, but you also share and reinforce one another's bad habits.
Both of you have a sober, realistic, and
at times cynical or pessimistic attitude towards life. Work, concrete
accomplishment, and material assets give you a sense of security, and
you can easily become too immersed in work-related responsibilities,
neglecting your home life and your own needs for relaxation, play, and
sustaining close emotional ties with others. Both of you are ambitious
and you are often hard on yourselves if you do not achieve enough.
Showing feelings of vulnerability,
neediness, or sentimentality, even to those closest to you, does not
come easily to you. You can seem emotionally distant and inaccessible to
others. You express caring more by being faithful and constant and doing
something concrete (like shouldering financial responsibilities) for the
people you love.
Emotional caution, self-control,
seriousness, and a tendency to expect and prepare for the worst are
ingrained emotional habits of yours.
Both of you would benefit by learning to
trust, laugh (playfully, not cynically or ruefully), and to be kinder to
yourselves.
Both of you have very deep feelings and
powerful emotional attachments to those you love and care about. Your
emotional intensity is a quality that may not be fully appreciated by
less passionate should. However, the two of you understand, and are
probably drawn to, this aspect of one another. You both want to be very
alive and to feel everything deeply. In fact you both tend to be
somewhat addicted to a certain level of extreme emotionalism, and
everyday life can seem too dull without great expression of feelings.
Each of you is a natural psychologist, in
the sense that you seem to tune into others' hidden emotions and
motivations quite readily. You can "read" people with ease.
Both of you tend to be quarrelsome and
quick to turn any discussion into a verbal contest. Neither of you
listens very well or is truly receptive to others' ideas and feedback.
You tend to interrupt, to change the subject abruptly if it suits you,
and to force your ideas down others' throats at times. This impresses
some people or convinces them to adopt your point of view, but with each
other you are apt to get a taste of your own medicine!
You both need to learn a sense of timing,
tact, and sensitivity when relating to others.
As a couple, you tend to focus too much
on the responsibilities and duties that you have to each other and not
enough time to simply have fun, laugh, and enjoy life. Both of you are
also likely to feel blocked in your creative expression. You may feel
judged and criticised by each other, and that you hold one another back.
You will be called on to make lots of sacrifices for one another.
There is a deep sense of mutual
commitment and dedication that keeps the two of you together, even when
you face difficult times. Capricorn is very dedicated and loyal to
Capricorn, sincerely interested in being responsible to Capricorn, and
willing to make sacrifices when necessary. The two of you work well
together on practical matters and business affairs. If you marry, you
will find that you can rely on each other to be helpful and responsible.
You both really enjoy each other's
company. You put each other in a good mood and an optimistic, friendly,
jovial atmosphere develops when you get together. You may have been
friends for some time before you became lovers. You are a very likeable
couple and, as a couple you are very sociable, hospitable, and
expansive. You bring out the generous side of one another, and are very
nurturing and protective towards each other.
Your relationship is destined to always
be a "hot" one. The sexual fireworks which are generated
between the two of you are undeniable. However, certain difficulties
will arise from time to time in this area – among them: differences in
how you each express or wish to receive affection, an element of
conquest or dominance that evokes competitive feelings in the other
person, or possessiveness because one or both of you feel you can't get
enough of the other person. It may be hard for both of you to get your
sexual-emotional needs met, as one of you is apt to dominate. Imbalances
of this sort can create a lot of anger in the neglected,
"giving" partner. If, however, you can learn to take turns
giving and receiving, and focus on truly joining, the two of you can
have a very vibrant, passionate relationship.