Both of you have strong, deep feelings
and you bond very intensely. Consequently you become attached to each
other and cling tightly to each other. However, your emotional natures
are different in many ways too. Cancer often feels more compassion and
sympathy for someone, while Scorpio may view Cancer's feelings as
sentimentality. When wounded, Scorpio becomes resentful and vindictive.
Cancer on the other hand, cries or sulks, and usually lets the other
person know (verbally or nonverbally) about it. Scorpio, by contrast,
hides it.
You may also have different attitudes
towards sexuality versus love. For example, Cancer may feel that Scorpio
is sometimes more driven by instinct and lust than by love, and this may
become an issue in your relationship. Overall, though, the intense
bonding and emotionality of your relationship fosters a deep, lasting
attachment between you.
Both of you are very sensitive and
intuitive about others' needs and feelings, and become deeply attached
to people. The two of you can become very, very close, intensely bonded
to one another, for you both need and seek a very complete emotional
union with your partner. Cancer is very dependent on loved ones, and so
is Scorpio, though Scorpio doesn't always show or admit it. When you
want something or care about something or someone, both of you are very
emotional and often lose all objectivity.
For the most part you are quite
compatible, but there are some differences. Scorpio is more passionate,
more emotionally driven, and has very strong loves, hates, and emotional
reactions to people and situations (though these feelings may be
hidden).
Scorpio's depths are revealed to very
few, and it is difficult for Scorpio to be openly vulnerable and to
relinquish control in a relationship. Scorpio can be very vindictive
when hurt or angry. Cancer, on the other hand, is softer, more tender
and gentle, and may be upset at times by Scorpio's vehemence. Cancer
wants and needs a very sympathetic, nurturing, non-competitive and
peaceful atmosphere.
The two of you have a very strong psychic
or telepathic link, and there is a great deal of sensitivity, empathy,
and understanding between you. Idealism and devotion are important
elements in your relationship and both of you may gladly give or
sacrifice much for one another. Cancer encourages Scorpio to be
receptive and somewhat passive. Scorpio is easily swayed by Cancer's
emotions and moods, and this may be confusing or overwhelming,
especially if Scorpio doesn't have a solid sense of self. Cancer, on the
other hand, idolises Scorpio, and may have a very inaccurate picture of
Scorpio's true nature and needs. Also, both of you may be very indirect
or subtle in your communications. Strive to be straightforward and clear
with one another.
You enjoy dynamic physical activities
together, and it is likely that you enjoy playing sports, competing
against each other, and pursuing life together in a spirited, zealous
manner. You are quite a "dynamic due" but you are also
inclined to become angry with each other and feel initiated by each
other. The dynamism and impatience that you arouse in each other can
also lead to pushiness, power struggles, anger, and hostility. Sexual
attraction is also very intense and builds up suddenly and unexpectedly.
Possessiveness, may be a problem in your
relationship. Since your sexual desires come on fairly suddenly and
strongly, you will find it hard to regulate them at times. Love and sex
'explode' in this relationship. You cannot get enough of each other. It
can be an erotic combination.
You have a strong affinity with one
another, an instinctive rapport that enables you to know one another
very well, almost from the start. A basic compatibility exists which
helps you to overcome the stressful or problematic facts of your
relationship. You have a natural sense of belonging with one another.
Bursts of inspiration, creative
imagination and insight, or strange psychic experiences makes your
relationship lively and unusual. You may do some rather bizarre or
unusual experimenting together. Avoidance of responsibility or reality
can be a problem at times.