In many ways the two of you are
opposites. Cancer needs a lot of domestic and family activities.
Nurturing others and personal involvement with others is a necessary
part of life for Cancer. Family and close friends are extremely
important for Cancer, while Capricorn often becomes emotionally detached
from personal affairs and may fail to fully appreciate Cancer's more
personal, emotional responses to situations. Capricorn may seem dry and
emotional inexpressive to Cancer.
Your differences can serve to complement
each other only if you really understand and appreciate each other. Both
of you do seek security, consistency, and fidelity in relationships, so
there is a reasonably good chance that over time you will develop a
greater appreciation for each other's opposite qualities.
Your instinctive emotional responses and
your temperaments are very different and, in fact, quite opposite much
of the time.
Cancer is emotional, tender, sentimental,
easily swayed by moods and appeals to sympathy. The need to be deeply
connected, a desire to be taken care of and/or a need to be needed are
very strong in Cancer. Caring and closeness are of primary importance to
Cancer.
Capricorn is as committed and loyal in
relationship as Cancer is, but Capricorn is uncomfortable feeling or
expressing softness, neediness, vulnerability and emotion in general.
Capricorn has a certain crustiness and
emotional distance, which seems cool or cold at times. Personal
emotional needs are often ignored or put aside in favour of work,
practical responsibilities and duties. Capricorn eschews dependency or
"babyishness", expecting capable, responsible, no-nonsense
behaviour at all times. Highly demanding of self and others, Capricorn
often neglects the playful, feeling, childlike side of life.
Cancer's emotionality and neediness often
conflicts with Capricorn's emotional detachment and dry realism.
Secretly, however, Capricorn needs tenderness as much as anyone, though
admitting that and asking to be held or comforted is very hard for
Capricorn to do. Cancer's softness is much needed and appreciated by
Capricorn.
And Cancer, thought sometimes frustrated
by Capricorn's inexpressiveness or unresponsiveness, is also drawn to
Capricorn's strength and emotional stability.
Although your tastes and preferences are
often completely opposite from each other, you love and admire each
other very deeply. There is almost a maternal tenderness that you feel
for each other, and the warm sympathy and caring that you feel for each
other fosters a close and lasting relationship. There is a "soul
kinship" between you.
Both of you have a tremendous romantic
imagination and feeling for beauty. You also enjoy a certain aura of
mystery and/or wish to maintain an idealised image of your beloved.
Positively, you seek to see only the good in others, and to forgive
their departures from their best selves. Compassion and spiritual
understanding are an important part of love for you, and you both seek
friends and lovers who have these qualities. Other people may think of
both of you as saints or "angels" because of your loving
hearts and your kindness.
Sexual expression has a wonderful
compatibility, you "spark" each others imagination and the
bond is strong. When the dam beaks during sexual intercourse, it
releases a flood of physical passion that takes you both by storm.
Erotic cries of verbal happiness will always be expressed in this
relationship.
The depth of love which you will be able
to experience with one another will have a transformative, healing
effect on both of you. Through your relationship, you'll realise the
power of love to change lives and mend the broken places within you
both. This certainly is part of the purpose of your being together. Even
if other aspects of your relationship are difficult or frustrating, the
intensity of your feelings for one another and your desire to be
together will be very strong. IN fact, it would be very difficult indeed
for you to let go of one another.
Wonderful good fortune and blessings on
many levels come to you both as a result of being together. Yours is
destined to be a very felicitous relationship, one that promises both
happiness and growth. You will bring out the finest in one another, and
contribute to one another's success, as well as one another's joy.