
Honesty and a desire for the unadorned
truth are virtues you both posses and value, though Virgo takes Aries'
honest criticism better than Aries takes Virgo's.
Some very basic differences in your
makeup can make you uncomfortable with each other at times: Aries tends
to throw caution to the wind, while Virgo worries a great deal if all
details are not taken care of first. Aries acts NOW, on impulse and
intuition, while Virgo wants to think carefully and study the fine print
first.
Virgo is the more self-analytical of the
two of you and Aries is likely to be impatient with this at times. Virgo
also tends to be more giving, and may get into the role of assistant or
"servant" to Aries. Both of you need to make a lot of
adjustments in order to accommodate the differences between you.
You will need to do quite a bit of
adjusting in order to harmonize with one another on a daily basis, as
your personal habits and instinctive emotional responses to situations
are very different, and may become a source of considerable irrigation
over time.
Virgo is careful and needs to thoroughly
analyze a situation before proceeding. Aries on the other hand, is
impulsive and direct and often abrupt. Aries will act first, and think
about the consequences later. Aries is prone to emotional outbursts and
short-lived, but frequent flares of temper. Virgo is rather sensitive
and becomes nervous, fretful, or anxious by Aries brashness.
Virgo is a bit of a worrier, and Aries,
who hates to admit ever feeling frightened or insecure, may scoff at
Virgo's concerns and worries.
Also Virgo is something of a
perfectionist, dislikes making mistakes, and can be very critical of
self and others. Aries has a strong need to take chances on new
ventures, to be daring and original, and is bound to make numerous
mistakes in the process. Virgo's criticisms can be very discouraging to
the bold pioneer in Aries. One way you can support each other is for
Virgo to help organize and practically implement some of Aries creative
ideas.
The relationship is more than likely to
have its fair share of frustrations and difficulties. There is a sense
of responsibilities towards each other, but the union may not
necessarily be long lasting.
At times you both feel emotionally
constrained and inhibited by being together, and this relationship may
feel like a form of imprisonment! Virgo, in particular, may feel
disheartened by Aries criticisms, worries, fears, or need to dominate
Virgo's life. Virgo's emotional needs and feelings are ignored and much
emphasis on responsibilities and obligations and not enough attention
given to the needs for acceptance and tenderness.
As a couple, you will have many unusual
experiences, and a lot of friends whoa re unique, interesting, creative,
and quite different from one another. You could gather a
"family" around you that is quite unlike the traditional or
"normal" family, including adopted relatives and close
friends. A certain openness, acceptance of deviance from the norm, and
willingness to learn from unexpected sources will be essential in this
relationship. Being able to flow with change and live in the present
moment will be necessary too, as there is a certain, ongoing movement in
your relationship that precludes settling down into any established
routine for very long.
Emotionally this relationship is unusual,
there may be sexual competition or inhibitions. Virgo may hold back from
a climax unnecessarily, due to Aries' selfish and quick action. Thus,
full sexual enjoyment in love, may not be forthcoming at times.
As a couple the two of you will attract a
lot of unusual friends, eccentric or creative people who will make life
interesting and entertaining. Openness to experimentation, especially
regarding expressing yourselves sexually or how you derive pleasure and
enjoyment, will play an important role in your relationship too. You'll
find that your interaction is always dynamic and changing, so that both
of you are taken by surprise and cannot take anything for granted
regarding each other. This keeps your connection fresh and stimulating,
although you may wish for a little more peace and "sameness"
at times.
If your relationship is a long-term one
and you live together, you can expect that this relationship will bring
both of you face to face with personal habits of your own that must be
improved, or at least adapted to the tastes of your partner. Issues such
as tidiness and neatness at home, use of abusive or foul language,
choice of foods, tastes in music and decor, approaches towards raising
children, etc. come to the fore. At times you will come to an impasse
and feel that you cannot come to an agreement on these issues. Virgo, in
particular, may become very frustrated by some of Aries' deeply
ingrained, personal habits. If your ethnic backgrounds or upbringings
are very different, this problem can be severe. If both of you can be
tolerant, open-minded, accepting or shortcomings in your m ate, and
willing to learn new attitudes, you can turn potentially frustrating
situations into opportunities to mature and grow emotionally.