Both of you have strong emotional
responses to people and situations, but you express yourselves very
differently. Aries becomes frustrated and impatient rather easily and is
prone to frequent, but short-lived, outbursts of temper. Scorpio is
emotionally complex, secretive and often suspicious as well, and capable
of tremendous emotional intensity. Scorpio loves or hates
wholeheartedly. Aries is more simple and direct that Scorpio, and may
not full appreciate the depth of Scorpio's feelings.
You may have some vicious conflicts at
times, yet you are drawn to one another's passion.
You are both willful and passionate
people, with a strong desire to live intensely and directly, and you
love this about each other. There is a lot of fire in your relationship
and you are likely to fight ferociously sometimes. Aries, however, can
release anger and emotions and then forget about it, while Scorpio
nurses grudges and resentments, and may hold on to the wounds that Aries
unthinkingly inflicts.
Also, Scorpio needs to feel intensely
bonded emotionally, and Aries may not have the same overwhelming need
for closeness.
Neither of you are particularly
conventional, nor are you great lovers of rules and formal traditions
for their own sake, but Scorpio is apt to have a much harder time
conforming, and may in fact openly scorn or rebel against such
limitations. There is apt to be a great deal of change, constant motion,
fluctuating circumstances, and disorganization in Scorpio's life,
whereas Aries embraces necessary changes and flows with them but doesn't
seem to need to create upsetting and unstable situations all of the
time. Aries can help Scorpio learn how to be true to oneself and one's
own beliefs and nature without needing to always rail against "the
establishment" or "the system".
Imagination, fantasy, and idealism are
key elements in your relationship. Scorpio, in particular, tends to see
Aries in glamorous romanticized terms, and may fail to recognize Aries'
actual character. You both need to ask yourselves: Have I fallen in love
with a person or an image? Positively, there is a great deal of
sympathy, an intuitive or psychic rapport that enables you to be very
sensitive to one another's subtle cues and feelings. You also inspire
one another's generosity, charitable impulses, and idealism. Negatively,
you can deceive one another and tend to avoid clear, precise, direct
communication, which may result in disappointments.
No matter how practical and well-grounded
the two of you are as individuals, together you have some real blind
spots, things which you don't see clearly at all, or which you see
through a haze of fantasy and hope. Deception and/or self-deception can
undermine this relationship if you are not as clear, precise, and honest
with one another as you can be.
Sexually there is an electric excitement
and energy between you that comes and goes. You are apt to be highly
adventurous - if not downright deviant - as sexual partners.
Experimentation and going to extremes is
easy for you. You may enjoy lovemaking on the spur of the moment, any
place, any time, anywhere.
An intense quality of impatience, and an
inability to wait, or restrain or thoughtfully consider your actions,
are innate aspects of this relationship. "I want what I want and I
want it NOW!" is the feeling you will both have. There is an
impulsive, rebellious, dare-devilish, I-can-do-whatever -I-want quality
which infuses your relationship with excitement but also makes it
unpredictable and unstable. If either of you has a problem with temper
or a tendency toward violence, unfortunately this will be acted out in
sudden and erratic ways. Even if you don't have these tendencies, you
two can be dangerous together because you make one another reckless. You
can be wild and free together - but also very defiant and easily
provoked.