You both enjoy and need to be active and
on the go, and are more interested in the present that in the past. Once
something has outlived its usefulness, you are both ready to part with
it and you go on to something new. You both have a low tolerance for
boredom! You also share a weakness in common: the inability to stick
with things (projects and relationships) when they become dull or
problematic. Neither of you wants a very clingy, dependent type of
partner, and with one another you have a certain amount of independence
that you both enjoy.
Sometimes Gemini wants to discuss an idea
while Aries becomes impatient with the conversation, feeling that they
are beating around the bush, and not really getting to the heart of the
matter. Aries becomes abrupt, impatient, and tactless at such times.
Gemini must realize that Aries simply does not have a taste for
conversation at such times, and must not rely too much on Aries for
daily conversation. Handled positively, Gemini can provide lots of
different perspectives on Aries impulsive ideas.
The two of you share a high degree of
physical energy and vitality. You are both doers, go-getters, active and
quite assertive when need be. Neither of you likes to sit around and
wait for life to happen to you - you want to MAKE it happen - and you
bring out this quality in each other. You could succeed together in any
effort that requires initiative, enthusiasm, and decisiveness. Activism
in other arenas is also indicated. You encourage self-confidence in one
another.
You are deeply drawn to one another and
it is likely you will have a serious, meaningful, committed and
long-lasting relationship. You focus much time and attention on one
another and you may find yourself excluding others and restricting your
other relationships in order to be together. This can make you both feel
secure but it also begins to feel too confining and limiting.
You tend to want each other not to
change, to be reliable and responsible and to life up to certain
expectations that may be burdensome or restrictive. Too much emphasis on
your responsibilities or promises to one another can squeeze playfulness
and life out of your relationships.
Although there is a great deal of
fascination, curiosity, and attraction between you, there is also a lack
of stability and peace. You react to each other very impulsively. Your
feelings for each other blow hot and cold. It may seem like you are
either making love or arguing with each other, going from one extreme to
another. This relationship could easily turn into a love/hate
relationship, where you simultaneously feel irresistibly drawn to each
other, but you also irritate each other and make each other feel very
uncomfortable. To make this relationship work, you both must be very
flexible, tolerant of shortcomings in each other, adaptable to the
constant changes and upsets and enjoy excitement, novelty, and
surprises. In this relationship there is never a dull moment!
You are also fascinated with one another
and can have a very dreamy sexual and romantic interest in each other.
Your erotic imagination is powerfully stimulated by one another, and you
find each other mysteriously desirable, highly provocative, or
seductive.
The emotional bond between you is very
complex. Sexual attraction is strong and you find each other to be very
magnetic or highly charismatic. But you also will find yourself becoming
uncomfortable with various deeply ingrained habits and attitudes of each
other as you learn more about each other. You are simultaneously
attracted and repulsed by each other. You evoke intense emotional
responses from each other and if you want this relationship to be a
long-lasting one, you will have to be very careful because a blowup in
the relationship can be triggered by jealousy, acts of unkindness, or
simply the unwillingness of either of you to change deeply ingrained
habits that are offensive to each other. In short, this is an
emotionally intense relationship that blows hot and cold, drives you to
emotional extremes, and challenges your deepest, most personal and
important attitudes and habits.
You enjoy dynamic physical activities
together, and it is likely that you enjoy playing sports, competing
against each other, and pursuing life together in a spirited, zealous
manner. You are quite a "dynamic duo" but you are also
inclined to become angry with each other and feel irritated by each
other. The dynamism and impatience that you arouse in each other can
also lead to pushiness, power struggles, anger and hostility.