Both of you are independent individuals
and you don't like feeling "owned" by anyone. Neither of you
can tolerate being dominated or bossed by anyone else, so you probably
make your own decisions, and direct your own lives. You respect one
another's autonomy, and a relationship that is based on constant
togetherness and dependency wouldn't suit either of you. Sometimes,
however, there is too much emphasis on individualism rather than on
being close and nurturing the relationship. You both have proud egos and
are sensitive to criticism. Almost inevitably you will compete with each
other, and in small doses this can be invigorating. But it easily
becomes nasty, and one of you is likely to get hurt.
Both of you are assertive, emotionally
self-sufficient individuals who respond with positive action, anger, or
compulsive busyness whenever you are upset.
Often you deny or downplay any feelings
of weakness, dependency, or neediness in yourselves or others. You
expect yourself to "snap out of it" whenever you feel sad,
low, or moody, and you're frequently impatient with others' emotional
needs as well. This is not so bad when you are both feeling up, but when
one of you is ill or feeling vulnerable, you may not get the comfort or
support you need.
Both of you have a competitive spirit and
may enjoy playing sports or other athletic activities together, but you
can easily antagonize one another instead, and end up feeling like
rivals rather than loving friends.
Both of you instinctively want to lead
and don't compromise or take commands very readily. Having two
"chiefs" in one household can be volatile at times!
Both of you, as individuals, possess a
great deal of personal charm and appeal. You are able to attract love,
opportunities, money and whatever you need in your lives rather easily.
In fact, unless other factors in your charts indicate a capacity for
effort and discipline, you may sail through life doing whatever comes
easiest and depending a great deal on your "pretty face" or
pleasing, likeable manner to get by.
The two of you share a great sense of
aesthetics and taste, an appreciation for beauty, the arts, and the
pleasures of life. A flair for the art of love, too, is a gift you
share.
Each of you also has quite a bit of
artistic potential and you can encourage and inspire this in each other.
A focus on developing and expressing your creativity - together as well
as individually - is apt to be one of the most fulfilling aspects of
your relationship.
Both of you are highly romantic,
passionate, warm, loving and decidedly sexual. Your inner drive is the
motivating force in a relationship. You have lots of physical and sexual
energy. However, you may have to slow down a little, otherwise you may
tire quickly and burn yourself out.
The bonds of friendship and love that you
have for each other run very deep. The strong intuitive rapport and very
close emotional tie makes your friendship a permanent one. You share you
most personal concerns with each other with relative ease, and these
intimate shared experiences build a powerfully strong bond between you
over time.
An unusually open, non-possessive,
emotionally liberating relationship will naturally develop between you.
Because you do not try to own one another, or to live up to some
preconceived idea of how you should be together, you will both be free
to express your true impulses and desires. The more you encourage one
another to b free, the closer you will feel. One of the purposes of your
relationship is to allow you both to experience a true friendship and
connectedness which is not restrictive, binding, or possessive.
If you are looking for a placid,
predictable relationship, then run the other way! This relationship
brings lots of surprises. Both of you are exposed to completely new
ideas and you explore creative, original ideas that you would otherwise
never come across. Be wary of the tendency to be very impulsive when
making joint decisions. Sometimes the two of you abruptly seize an
opportunity, realizing later that you were swept away by the excitement
and novelty of the idea, and the idea is not that practical or
realistic.
You inspire, inflame, vitalize and
energize one another and you can accomplish much together, but you can
easily become overly zealous, even fanatical, in your pursuits. It is
also likely that your objectives will sometimes be different and you
will feel at cross-purposes with each other. You often end up in power
struggles, being very competitive with each other, and trying to
manipulate or dominate one another.
Your conversations are spirited and often
exhilarating. You spark each other to view situations in a new light and
you inspire creative, original ideas. This relationship inspires
creativity and originality, and a fresh attitude towards life - and you
should share a very interesting life - and you should share a very
interesting life together.