You have an excellent intellectual
rapport. You spark each other's wit and you love to toss ideas back and
forth. Intellectual companionship is important to both of you, and in
this relationship you have found a partner whose conversation and
company you enjoy. The emotional and physical connection between you
may, or may not be, strong. You may very well feel m ore like brother
and sister, or best friends, than lovers; this will certainly be true if
there is little emphasis on romance and emotional bonding in the rest of
this report. Shared viewpoints, common interests, and social activities
are key elements in your relationship.
Aquarius tends to be intense, driven,
sometimes overly zealous or willful, and this is something few other
people understand or appreciate. Aquarius tends to be an extremist,
wants to go all the way, and may be regarded as a fanatic by more
moderate types. Gemini, on the other hand, understands and even enjoys
Aquarius's intensity, while not sharing the same degree of fervour or
obsessiveness. Gemini isn't threatened by – or dominated by –
Aquarius's strong will and desires. In fact, Gemini may be one of the
few who can stand up to Aquarius without becoming embroiled in a furious
power struggle. There is a lot of passion in this relationship. If you
both direct your wills toward the same aims, you would be a formidable
team, with Gemini helping Aquarius maintain some sense of balance and
proportion.
The two of you enjoy planning and
designing methods for achieving success. You encourage each other to
achieve your dreams and Gemini frequently points out new avenues and
grander vistas for Aquarius's talents and energy. However, the
propensity to speculation and unrealistic optimism is also very strong,
and many of your joint ventures are likely to prove wasteful, poorly
times, or extravagant.
Being together will bring many changes
into your lives. You'll become more progressive, more open to
experimentation and new ideas, more adventurous and less conventional.
You'll foster one another's freedom and autonomy, and develop a
relationship that may look odd to other people, but which truly fits
your own needs and authentic selves. What may have seemed radical or too
far out to you, now will become quite easy for you to accept.
The more the two of you cooperate with
the impulse towards newness and "nowness" (letting go of the
need to maintain the familiar, or cling to preconceived expectations),
the better and more smooth your relationship will be. One of the
purposes of the two of you coming together is to open you both to new
ways of expressing yourselves and understanding the world.
You probably enjoy playing mental games
together - word games, guessing games, etc. and you may also undertake a
creative mental activity together, such as writing. Sports, arts and
entertainment can also be enjoyed together.
Your relationship is exciting,
unpredictable, and stimulating. However, it tends to be explosive too,
and there is the strong possibility that you will come together suddenly
and unexpectedly, and will break up just as suddenly. If either of you
is looking for a very stable, quiet, traditional, uneventful marriage
with security, commitment, dependability, and predictability, then this
is not the relationship for you! Together you will explore new
possibilities and interests and break away from traditional, long-held
beliefs and assumptions. Your sexual life, like other aspects of your
lives, is exciting but not predictable and likely to vary from ecstatic
to unsatisfying. You must be willing to be flexible and adaptable in all
areas of life. Be wary, also, of letting your love for freedom and
independence become a euphemism for being neglectful and inconsiderate
of each other.
You may try to pack too many different
techniques into one night of love. Fantasies are something you both
enjoy, some, even join swingers groups or prefer to have an open
relationship, where you can allow a relationship outside your own. Sex
props, videos and mechanical embellishments may appeal to you. Verbal
expression and words with great erotic impact is important to you. The
better your love vocabulary, the more expressive you love.