Both of you are independent, active
individuals who appreciate progressive, dynamic approaches to any
situation or problem, and your relationship has a lively, spirited
quality. You both can be iconoclasts as well, taking pride in your
freedom from many traditional values and beliefs. Aries is more
concerned with personal creativity and, in some ways, less integrated
into social groups and the community than Aquarius.
Aries' emotions tend to be hot and fiery,
while Aquarius is cooler, more detached, impersonal and fair. When
something provokes Aries' impatience or anger, Aquarius can be
infuriatingly logical and reasonable. Both of you are active and
independent and insist upon having the freedom to pursue your personal
interests and desired outside of your relationship. You allow one
another to be separate individuals, as well as being part of the couple.
Aries is sometimes domineering, but Aquarius demands equality and will
not accept being dominated. Both of you resist authority.
Also, both of you have a craving for
newness and a willingness to let go of the old and the past in order to
embrace a new opportunity or to follow your direction regardless of
tradition or convention.
Though similar in temperament, you may
not always get along because neither of you compromise very readily.
Both of you are high-energy people. Aries
can help Aquarius learn to direct competitive drives and personal power
into positive channels, as this is something Aries has mastered in ways
that Aquarius is still grappling with. Aquarius tends to go overboard,
and become aggressive, angry, ad belligerent at times, whereas Aries is
smoother and less likely to aggravate other people when being assertive
and forceful. Aries has integrated and developed certain aspects of the
masculine principle (the ability to act, to achieve, to assert the self
effectively) and can model this for Aquarius.
The two of you spark each other's sense
of humour and good will. You usually put each other into a good mood,
and you can count on lots of laughter, fun, and socializing to develop
from this relationship. You feel open and uninhibited with each other,
and a great appreciation for each other grows out of your happy times
together.
Unexpected explosions - of anger,
passionate desire, or a wild urge to do something reckless - will occur
rather frequently in your relationship. You two can be dangerous
together! There is a dare-devilish excitement in your combined energies,
and certainly neither of you will be bored. However, excessive
selfishness and self will, a quickness to anger, and a generally
unstable temperamental quality can be unsettling to your peace of mind.
When the two of you are together, people
will see you as a dynamic duo - or a couple troublemakers! Part of the
purpose of your relationship is to break the rules, and as a couple you
are apt to fight for your freedom to do so. Sexually you will be very
adventurous and spontaneous together.
Sexual attraction is very strong, but as
with other things, one of you is likely to come on too strong to the
other and this may be offensive to your partner. There is a driving
compelling, somewhat impersonal quality to your love-making at times.
Both of you may be attracted to the more
aggressive or even violent styles of lovemaking, which you find
adventurous and exciting.
The two of you as a couple will be
strongly influenced by spiritual teachings, the joint pursuit of inner
development, or a combined interest in imagery, poetry, art, and the
imaginative life of the mind.
You will be unusually telepathic with one
another, and will almost immediately be able to convey your thoughts to
one another non-verbally. On a mental level anyway, you blend together
very well.
Idealism and trying to view situations
from a higher, more encompassing perspective are emphasized when you are
together, and a spiritual understanding will be easy for the two of you
to achieve.
You are destined to be involved with
learning about the subtle, intangible forces in life, the effects of
colour, music, artistic images, subtle healing energies, or prayer.
Teaching or otherwise disseminating these ideas may well be a function
of your relationship.